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- Taylor Swift and Joe Alwyn started quietly courting in 2016
- The pair reportedly ended their relationship within the Spring of 2023
- Joe Alwyn has served because the inspiration to a number of albums of Taylor’s, together with status, Lover, Folklore, Evermore and most not too long ago Midnights
Taylor Swift appeared to have met her match in Joe Alwyn, nonetheless, the connection seems to have come to an finish as of April 2023. After years of courting within the highlight, the Grammy winner has reportedly cut up after almost seven years collectively in response to Leisure Tonight. The connection had “run its course” and it’s a purpose why he “hasn’t been noticed at any exhibits” — referring to her Eras Tour that kicked off in March 2023. The cut up was “not dramatic” the outlet additionally reported.
Earlier than splitting, it appeared that Taylor had lastly discovered peace with Joe. The 2 had been collectively since they secretly began courting within the fall of 2016, and made a degree to maintain their relationship out of the general public eye.
Whereas the reported former couple has been shy about most particulars, followers know some intimate bits about Taylor and Joe’s relationships from the (many) songs that she’s written about him. He had additionally even opened up about their romance in an interview or two. Discover out extra concerning the exes relationship beneath!
Taylor Earlier than Joe
As one of many world’s largest superstars, Taylor Swift’s love life has lengthy been within the highlight. Her repertoire was even full of lengthy songs through the starting of her profession as a rustic star when she was simply 15 years outdated. Since then, she’s crooned about heartbreak throughout genres. However the star actually needed to confront her demons when she began feuding with Kim Kardashian and Kanye West in 2016, and was flooded with public hate.

Amid the feud, she was branded as a “snake” by Kim, which led to 1000’s of Kimye followers coming after her on-the-regular. Round this time, Taylor additionally broke up along with her longtime boyfriend, Calvin Harris, and began courting Tom Hiddleston simply weeks later. She had shaped a ‘squad’ pal group, full of supermodels and different A-list stars. It didn’t take lengthy for the general public to label her as “overexposed,” and it brought about her to basically go into hiding and “disappear” from the general public eye.
Who Is Joe Alwyn?
Issues have been chaotic in Taylor world earlier than Joe Alwyn got here into her world. The dapper actor from England lived a way more low-key life than Taylor, so he was a breath of recent air to the star. Although an actor, Hollywood was even new to Joe. He didn’t begin finding out performing till his late teenagers, and didn’t even make his performing debut till 2016.
Not like Taylor, Joe was in a position to go to varsity (he studied English literature and drama on the College of Bristol), and stay a comparatively regular life. Across the identical time he began courting Taylor, he started making a reputation for himself with roles in motion pictures like The Favorite and Mary Queen of Scots. After all, his relationship with a world pop star helped along with his notoriety, as nicely.
How Did Taylor Swift & Joe Alwyn Meet?
Taylor and Joe met on the Met Gala in Could 2016. Taylor was the co-chair of the occasion that yr, and he or she was courting Calvin on the time. Followers didn’t understand it, however Taylor and Calvin’s relationship was on the finish of its rope.
Within the 2017 Swift music, “Gown,” Taylor sang about assembly Joe at this very occasion. “Flashback once you met me, your buzz minimize and my hair bleached,” she croons on the observe. Certainly, Taylor did have bleached hair, and Joe a buzz minimize, at that yr’s Met Gala.
In 2017, Taylor launched the music “Beautiful,” the place she admits that she was infatuated with Joe from the beginning. “You need to take into consideration the consequence, of your magnetic subject being somewhat too sturdy, and I acquired a boyfriend, he’s older than us, he’s within the membership doing I don’t know what,” she sings. Within the refrain, she provides, “You’re so attractive, I can’t say something to your face.”

Taylor’s Tryst With Tom Hiddleston
Nevertheless, it wasn’t Joe who Taylor spent the night time dancing with on the Met Gala. Fairly, she was caught spending fairly a little bit of high quality time with Tom on the dance ground. Movies surfaced of the 2 dancing up a storm. By the start of June, information broke that Taylor and Calvin had cut up, and he or she was photographed kissing Tom in Rhode Island simply two weeks later.

In Swift’s music “Getaway Automotive,” she sings concerning the scenario. “The ties have been black, the lies have been white, in shades of gray and candlelight, I wished to go away him, I wanted a purpose,” she says within the music’s first verse. Within the refrain, she additionally makes it clear that she was simply utilizing Tom as her “getaway automotive,” and notes that he shouldn’t be shocked that she wound up leaving him simply months later.
Getting To Know Joe
All through her summer time fling with Tom, Taylor seems to have stayed buddies with Joe. “I hate accidents, besides after we went from buddies to this,” she sings concerning the actor in her 2019 observe, “Paper Rings.”
Nevertheless, the music “Merciless Summer time” makes it clear that there have been deeper emotions past friendship being harbored. The music’s bridge hints that she was preserving her emotions for Joe a secret all summer time lengthy. “Stated I’m advantageous, nevertheless it wasn’t true, I don’t wanna maintain secrets and techniques simply to maintain you, and I snuck in by means of the backyard gate, each night time that summer time simply to seal my destiny,” she sings, hinting that she could have even been sneaking off to see Joe with out Tom realizing.
“Paper Rings” additionally options the lyrics, “The wine is chilly, just like the shoulder that I gave you on the street, cat and mouse for a month or two or three,” which appears to disclose that Taylor felt she needed to ignore and evade Joe whereas secretly being in love with him.
Joe & Taylor Go Public In 2016
It wasn’t till October 2016 that Taylor and Joe have been publicly related. The 2 each attended a personal Kings of Leon live performance in New York Metropolis, in addition to an after-party on the Bowery Resort. Taylor was photographed on the occasion with some buddies, and it was later uncovered that Joe was additionally in attendance. On the time, although, there was no connection between the pair. It wasn’t till Could 2017 that information shops started reporting that Taylor and Joe have been an merchandise. They’d been in a position to maintain their relationship a secret for eight months.
The precise timing of when Taylor and Joe’s relationship started is unclear, however in April 2018, Taylor hinted that their anniversary is Sept. 28. She launched a canopy of Earth, Wind & Fireplace’s music “September” and adjusted one lyric from “Do you keep in mind, the twenty first night time of September” to “Do you keep in mind, the twenty eighth night time of September?”
It’s clear from Taylor’s music that she credit Joe with getting her by means of the toughest time of her life after the drama with Kim and Kanye. In her 2017 music “Name It What You Need,” she sings, “All of the liars are calling me one, no person’s heard from me for months, I’m doing higher than I ever was” and “Bridges burn, I by no means be taught, a minimum of I did one factor proper, I’m laughing with my lover, making forts underneath covers, belief him like a brother, yeah you already know I did one factor proper.”
Taylor Sings About Tom On ‘Midnights’
Taylor’s 2022 album Midnights opens with “Lavender Haze,” a tribute to her romance with Joe. Within the music, she talks about how he’s supported her throughout her 2017 Repute drama, siging “I’ve been underneath scrutiny, you deal with it superbly, all this s*** is new to me.” She touches on a possible engagement within the subsequent traces, saying, “All they maintain asking me is that if I’m gonna be your bride. The one form of lady they see is one night time or a spouse.”
Taylor defined the music’s title forward of the discharge, telling Instagram followers how she first heard the phrase on the present Mad Males. “It’s a typical phrase used within the 50s the place they’d simply describe being in love,” Taylor revealed. “In case you have been within the lavender haze, that meant you have been within the all-encompassing love glow, and I believed that was actually lovely.”
The album’s music “Mastermind” can also be about Joe. Although she’d beforehand known as their friendship “unintentional,” Taylor appeared to drop the ruse within the sassy observe. “What if I instructed you none of it was unintentional,” Taylor sings on “Mastermind.” “And the primary night time that you just noticed me, nothing was gonna cease me. I laid the bottom work after which identical to clockwork the dominoes cascaded in a line. What if I instructed you I’m a mastermind? And now you’re mine. It was all by design.”
On the finish of the music, Taylor sings about confessing to Joe that she was going to cease at nothing to verify they ended up collectively. Whereas she was frightened about how he’d react, it seems that he was conscious your entire time, and his solely response was a smile.
How They Keep Non-public
Taylor has been a bit extra open about how she handles the stress of courting within the highlight lately. Speaking about her love with Joe forward of Midnights’ launch in Oct. 2022, she stated, “My relationship for six years, we’ve needed to dodge bizarre rumors, tabloid stuff, and we simply ignore it. So [“Lavender Haze”] is type of concerning the act of ignoring that stuff to guard the true stuff.”
Tom stated an analogous factor again in Apr. 2022 with Elle. Explaining why he retains his playing cards near his chest, he stated, “It’s not likely [because I] need to be guarded and personal, it’s extra a response to one thing else. We stay in a tradition that’s so more and more intrusive. The extra you give and albeit, even when you don’t give it, one thing shall be taken.”
Are Taylor & Joe Engaged?
Regardless of hypothesis, Taylor and Joe should not engaged. A considerably exhausted Joe touched on the topic after he was requested by WSJ Journal in Apr. 2022. “If I had a pound for each time I feel I’ve been instructed I’ve been engaged, then I’d have quite a lot of pound cash,” the British actor stated. Nonetheless, he remained coy, saying, “I imply, the reality is, if the reply was sure, I wouldn’t say, and if the reply was no, I wouldn’t say.”
Taylor Swift & Joe Alwyns’ Prime Moments
Regardless that Taylor isn’t shy relating to singing about Joe on her songs, the 2 have made a degree to be photographed collectively as little as potential. They’ve by no means as soon as shared an image collectively on social media, and haven’t walked a pink carpet collectively but, both. Nevertheless, regardless of their makes an attempt to remain non-public, the lovebirds have been caught out in public a number of instances throughout their relationship.
On the finish of 2018, Taylor supported Joe on the premiere of his film The Favorite. She didn’t stroll the pink carpet, however she acquired glammed up and was photographed leaving a post-premiere get together along with her man. The Favorite was a giant award show-nominee in 2019. Joe attended that yr’s Golden Globes solo for the movie, however Taylor made a shock look as a presenter, and the 2 have been noticed leaving an after-party collectively. She was additionally by his facet at an after-party for the BAFTAs in Feb. 2019.
After all, Joe has gone out of his strategy to assist Taylor fairly a bit, as nicely. He was there to look at her efficiency on Saturday Night time Dwell in Oct. 2019, and so they have been photographed heading to the after-party collectively. Joe additionally supported Taylor on the premiere of Cats in 2019, though he didn’t stroll the pink carpet. In 2020, the 2 have been on the Golden Globes as soon as once more, and this time, they sat subsequent to one another on the identical desk. Photographers caught Taylor trying lovingly at Joe contained in the award ceremony, and there have been even some cute PDA moments! That February, Joe was by Taylor’s facet on the NME Awards, and a fan contained in the occasion caught them kissing on video!

Joe Seems In ‘Miss Americana’
In Taylor’s 2020 documentary Miss Americana, she opened up a bit extra about her relationship with Joe. Footage revealed that Joe was there for the opening night time of Taylor’s Repute tour, and when she acquired off stage, the very first thing she did was discover him so she may run into his arms. Within the doc, Taylor discusses her drama with Kim and Kanye, however provides, “I additionally was falling in love with somebody who had a splendidly regular, balanced life.” She additionally says, “Regardless that it was [a] actually horrible [time], I used to be comfortable. However I wasn’t comfortable in the best way I used to be skilled to be comfortable. It was happiness with out anybody else’s enter. We have been simply…comfortable.”
In the course of the coronavirus in 2020, Taylor and Joe’s relationship crossed over from private to skilled once they began collaborating on songs collectively whereas quarantining. When Taylor shocked followers along with her album, Folklore, in July 2020, there was a mysterious co-writer named William Bowery on two of the tracks. Followers started theorizing that William Bowery was Joe because of one of many pair’s first public hangouts going down on the Bowery Resort in 2016. Plus, Joe’s grandfather, William Alwyn, was a composer, conductor and music instructor. When Taylor launched stay recordings of Folklore for her Disney+ film, Folkore: The Lengthy Pond Studio Classes, she confirmed that William Bowery is, certainly, Joe. William Bowery returned to co-write three extra tracks on Taylor’s subsequent album, Evermore, which was launched in Dec. 2020.

When Folklore received the award for Album of the Yr on the Grammys in March 2021, Taylor made certain to shout Joe out in her speech. “I wanna thank Joe,” she stated. “The primary individual I play each single music that I write. I had the most effective time writing songs with you in quarantine.” It was the primary time she publicly talked about him on this method. She shared an analogous sentiment whereas being honored with the World Icon Award on the BRIT Awards in Could.
Taylor Swift & Joe Alwyn Reportedly Break up
In a transfer that shocked Swifties to the core, a report emerged on Easter Weekend 2023 that Taylor and Joe had damaged up after almost seven years. The break-up had reportedly occurred a number of weeks earlier than the report and was “not dramatic” per ET. “The connection had simply run its course. It’s why [Alwyn] hasn’t been noticed at any exhibits,” additionally they stated, referencing her Eras Tour that kicked off in March 2023.
Taylor Swift’s Previous Relationships
Earlier than Joe, Taylor was in numerous high-profile relationships. Her first public romance was with Joe Jonas through the summer time and fall of 2008. Taylor made a shock look on the Jonas Brothers’ tour that summer time to sing her hit “Ought to’ve Stated No,” and he or she and Joe started being noticed out and about collectively after that. Sadly, the connection was short-lived, as Taylor revealed that Joe “broke up along with her over the telephone” that October. She penned songs like “Ceaselessly & At all times,” “Higher Than Revenge,” “Final Kiss” and “Mr. Completely High quality” concerning the relationship, and now, the 2 are buddies!
Following Joe, Taylor was in a relationship with Taylor Lautner, who she met on the set of the film Valentine’s Day. They have been collectively for the second half of 2009 earlier than splitting that December. Swift wrote her first apology music, “Again to December,” concerning the breakup. Subsequent got here a fling with John Mayer, though followers didn’t even know that relationship existed till months later when Tay launched the heartbreaking music “Pricey John” in Oct. 2010.
From the top of 2010 till the start of 2011, Taylor was with Jake Gyllenhaal. It’s no secret that he broke her coronary heart, which followers know from the fan-favorite observe “All Too Nicely.” A number of of the songs on Taylor’s 2012 album, Crimson, have been about her relationship with Jake, together with “We Are By no means Getting Again Collectively”, “State of Grace,” and “The Second I Knew.” After Jake, Taylor was with Conor Kennedy through the summer time of 2012. They have been seen hanging out in Rhode Island collectively fairly a bit, and Taylor even acquired to know Conor’s well-known household. She penned the music “Starlight” for his grandmother, Ethel Kennedy, who was Robert F. Kennedy’s widow.

After all, Taylor additionally dated Harry Kinds. Though the 2 had been linked a number of instances prior, their relationship strengthened on the finish of 2012. They have been collectively for simply a few months earlier than calling it quits, however Harry impressed most of Taylor’s 2014 album, 1989. In Feb. 2015, Taylor met Calvin Harris by way of their mutual pal, Ellie Goulding. They began courting the next month and have been collectively for greater than a yr earlier than splitting in June 2016. Then got here the summer time fling with Tom, which featured quite a lot of jet-setting and really public shows of affection. None of this issues now, although, that Joe is within the image!
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