Tim Lambesis’ Wife Dany Responds to Latest Video With Statement

With one more video arriving on-line displaying As I Lay Dying singer Tim Lambesis in a lower than flattering mild, the singer’s spouse Dany has taken to social media to answer claims that she is behind the leaked clips.

The primary movies to reach got here near Thanksgiving with two clips of Lambesis exhibiting disturbing conduct throughout intense verbal exchanges and shouting matches with Dany.

On the time, Lambesis claimed that the movies have been leaked in retaliation towards him after he had served Dany with divorce papers earlier within the week. He had additionally claimed that he had a restraining order towards Dany who he alleged had subjected him to verbal and bodily abuse.

Now a 3rd video has began making the rounds during which Lambesis might be seen bodily hanging a canine on a number of events.

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With the movies circulating, Dany determined to share her story on social media during which she denies being the particular person behind the leaked movies and asks the one that is to cease doing so.

Beforehand (earlier than the leak of that first video close to Thanksgiving), she had issued an announcement calling rumors of abuse allegations towards Lambesis “fully false.”

On this new assertion, Dany alleges that her authentic October assertion was drafted by “managers” working to guard Lambesis’ public picture.

At this time (Jan. 17, 2025), she’s determined to talk out after Lambesis’ current statements and a public interview, one she views as being makes an attempt to cowl up the reality of their relationship.

Dany additionally accuses Lambesis of utilizing “DARVO techniques.” DARVO is an acronym for “deny, assault, reverse sufferer and offender.” In line with Medical Information At this time, it’s “a way an individual might use to shift duty for an abusive incident onto the survivor of the abuse” and “it could additionally assist the one that perpetrated the abuse deflect a number of the duty and blame onto the survivor.”

Her full assertion on the matter might be considered by means of her Instagram publish under:

I didn’t launch the movies which have come out of Tim Lambesis. Not those that have been launched in November, nor those that have been launched at present. Out of respect for me, I’m asking whoever is leaking movies to please cease.

I’ll not keep silent out of worry of Tim. The lies being advised by him in his final assertion and on this current podcast are deliberate makes an attempt to cowl up the reality and play the sufferer, utilizing typical DARVO techniques.

There was NEVER a home violence investigation towards me, nor was there ever a restraining order positioned towards me. That is public info anybody can entry on-line.
The movies that Tim claims to have of me
“abusing” him; are cases of self-defense and outbursts towards his ongoing bodily and psychological abuse, and repeated infidelity with a whole bunch of individuals.
The assertion I launched on October twenty fourth defending his abuse, was drafted up by him and his new “managers” to guard his profession and public picture. Which I’ve proof of.

Tim has constantly tried to intimidate me, bribe me, and beg me to signal an NDA in our marriage settlement stating that I’ll by no means publicly discuss him, in order that the reality will likely be buried when our divorce is finalized, that are all recorded conversations. I even have a recorded telephone name from Tim per week in the past, rationalizing, and explaining why he thinks we must always get again collectively.

I refuse to let dishonesty overshadow the ache and trauma I’ve endured any longer. Not simply to me, however to others near this as nicely. This isn’t nearly me anymore.
There’s Tim’s model of why his ex band mates left AILD, after which there’s the reality. There isn’t a “irony” behind the timing of the dissolution of AILD, and our marriage.

In the direction of the tip of our relationship, Tim advised me, “In psychology, when somebody hears a narrative of abuse in a relationship from one particular person, they’re extra more likely to consider that particular person’s model as a result of they have been the primary to inform the story.” On the time, I didn’t absolutely perceive what he meant, however it is extremely clear to me now.

The abusive, dishonest, narcissist will attempt to destroy your life & your identify with lies earlier than you may shine mild on the reality.

I’m finished being SILENT

The preliminary video leaks got here shortly in any case 4 of Lambesis As I Lay Dying bandmates and considered one of his Austrian Dying Machine bandmates stepped away from the teams.

As I Lay Dying guitarist Phil Sgrosso famous in his exit assertion that he had been a witness to “regarding patterns of conduct” and that the band “not affords a wholesome or protected atmosphere for anybody concerned.”

Others who departed shared related issues of their respective statements, being attentive to ethical boundaries and preserving their very own integrity.

Lambesis, who served jail time within the 2010s after being convicted for making an attempt to rent a hitman to name his first spouse, is the only remaining member of As I Lay Dying.