New ABC lead Joey Graziadei by no means obtained used to being the man relationship 32 ladies on the similar time — and it is likely to be the important thing to him being the perfect Bachelor in latest seasons.
“It one hundred pc examined me. I wouldn’t be myself if it didn’t take a look at me,” the 28-year-old actuality star informed Us Weekly in an unique interview forward of the Monday, January 22, premiere. “It’s one thing that felt very unnatural early on. I felt unnatural by way of the entire course of and folks will see that. I attempted to be as open and sincere about that. I didn’t attempt to act like I used to be alleged to be on this function, or I had it found out. That wouldn’t be me to do this, however the perfect factor I might do every time, what I saved attempting to do, was do it to the perfect of my skill and simply sort of belief that I used to be doing my greatest so I might sort of stay with all the pieces that comes out of it.”
He added: “I believe folks will really feel that — that I sort of felt prefer it wasn’t the place for me at instances — and likewise will really feel that I actually simply tried to do all the pieces I might to succeed by way of it.”
Bachelor Nation met Joey on Charity Lawson‘s season of The Bachelorette. The tennis professional was the runner-up, with Charity getting engaged to Dotun Olubeko.
Joey informed Us that his sisters have in contrast him to Ben Higgins, the season 20 Bachelor who struggled with considering he was “unlovable.”
“I believe they’re simply good to me, however I’ll take it,” Joey stated. “I’ve met Ben. He’s an absolute stud. If I’m even in the identical breath as him, I’m a fortunate man.”
Whereas Ben’s season didn’t work out — he and winner Lauren Bushnell break up in 2017 after one yr collectively — he’s broadly considered one of the standard Bachelors in franchise historical past. Ben’s self-doubt was a theme all through the season, and Joey teased that his concern of emotions not being reciprocated was on show throughout his personal journey.
“Once you get put on this place, your insecurities get magnified. I’ve had that challenge my whole life the place I’ve all the time questioned if I used to be going to be ok for somebody of their eyes — if I lastly obtained to the purpose that I believed I discovered my perpetually individual they usually didn’t really feel the identical method,” he stated. “So, I imply, it’s going to come back out all through the season. I speak about it lots as a result of I’m able the place my feelings are heightened and it’s a giant concern of mine, and it’s one thing that I’ve lived with and I’ve tried to work by way of as a lot as I can. … I’m a standard dude, I’ll say all of it day lengthy.”
Joey’s season formally kicks off on Monday, and the trailer made it clear that he has an emotional journey forward. Within the tremendous tease, he may be seen breaking down on the day of the proposals.
“I can simply inform you, clearly, you’ll be able to see I’m very emotional on that day,” he informed Us. “I believe that day is emotional it doesn’t matter what occurs and also you’re simply going to have to attend and see why it’s that emotional.”
The Bachelor airs on ABC Mondays at 8 p.m. ET.