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This effing man…
We now know, fairly definitively it appears, that Mica Miller actually did die by suicide. However the extra we examine this case, the extra we get an image of a lady who was making an attempt to so arduous to flee the psychological torment by the hands of 1 man — her husband.
Sure, John-Paul Miller, or J.P. as he’s recognized regionally, the pastor with the sketchy response to the surprising information of his spouse’s dying. He apparently has a rock stable alibi for her time of dying. However the proof he was a horrible husband — even after estrangement — retains piling up.
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NewsNation bought maintain of an e-mail J.P. allegedly despatched to Mica just some days earlier than her dying — apparently apologizing for placing revenge porn of her on the web! Sure, it is a freakin’ church pastor we’re speaking about! Per the outlet, J.P. was writing to apologize to his spouse for posting a topless picture of her on-line. He stated:
“I’m sorry for placing an image of you on the web. It was for lower than one hour and instantly taken down.”
Discover how he apologizes however then instantly minimizes how dangerous it was as a result of he took it down? That’s not all. He then jumps straight to explaining WHY he did it:
“I used to be harm that you’re telling everybody horrible intimate particulars of my previous sin, and I simply needed to attempt to harm you. Please forgive me. It was evil of me to do this.”
“Intimate particulars” of his “previous sin”?? What’s that about? Nicely, this was reportedly lower than two weeks earlier than her dying. So we are able to level to what she had been posting on her Fb, which was newly wiped of his presence. There she made movies talking out about escaping a “harmful” scenario and particularly addressed different Christian girls struggling “abuse” by the hands of their husbands. That’s simply what now we have a file of. We are able to guess she was telling of us she knew in regards to the upsetting specifics.
And we now have a greater concept what these had been. Two days after that e-mail — simply 9 days earlier than her dying, per NewsNation — Mica wrote an affidavit to her divorce lawyer lastly unleashing all of it. She wrote:
“For the reason that day we grew to become husband and spouse, I’ve been abused in each method I can consider. Emotionally, sexually, spiritually, financially, and bodily. He has harassed me bodily and electronically with letters, telephone calls, emails, and texts, hacking my emails, hacking my private Fb, and impersonating me. Utilizing my stolen telephone to ship texts and emails out to church members pretending to be me, texting family and friends saying that I’m sleeping with youngsters from our church, and displaying up in particular person at locations round city … To having put in 3 completely different monitoring units on my car.”
JFC. How did this man of the fabric get away with this?? Oh… we simply answered our personal query, didn’t we?
In any case, the story we’ve heard is that J.P. met Mica when she was only a 14-year-old churchgoer, and he had one other spouse — and 4 youngsters. He’s been accused of grooming Mica till she was sufficiently old to cheat with after which marry. She had apparently been babysitting for him. ICK! If all that’s true, it feels like he was utilizing his place to prey on girls all alongside. However that didn’t cease when he bought married, per her submitting.
DailyMail.com obtained Mica’s unique divorce submitting, which was really made method again in October of final yr, six months earlier than her dying. In contrast to so many of those “irreconcilable variations” ones, Mica straight up stated she was leaving him “on the grounds of adultery.” The submitting reads:
“Plaintiff (Mica) is knowledgeable and believes that the defendant (John-Paul) has and is at present partaking in acts of adultery with girls whose names are well-known to the defendant.”
As in, girls she is aware of from church?? She stated she “left the marital house because of defendant’s philandering in addition to defendant’s rising hostility in direction of plaintiff,” elaborating:
“Defendant has threatened to throw plaintiffs belongings into the yard, locked plaintiff out of her own residence and has defamed and demeaned the plaintiff earlier than a congregation of individuals.”
Gross! And no surprise he was upset! Given his place, this divorce might wreck him!
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Like we stated, if all of the bodily proof didn’t level to suicide… we are able to see why of us on-line had been and nonetheless are suspicious of the person. Nevertheless it appears fairly clear he didn’t kill Mica. Nevertheless…
Her household does maintain him answerable for her dying. Her father Michael Francis stated in an interview on NewsNation over the weekend:
“I do know she was pushed to the brink… My idea is broad proper now. There are bruises on her hand and accidents. These items will not be documented, they usually don’t present up for no motive. We simply need extra solutions. As quickly as they bought married, her habits went downhill quick. She appeared to be extra unhappy, extra beneath management. I consider he compressed her. He simply sucked the life proper out of her and induced her to go downhill.”
So unhappy. And never a singular story in the case of these supposed upstanding church guys, sadly. Mica’s sister Destinee Barrientos corroborated the grooming story, in addition to describing early abuser habits:
“He satisfied her to get away from our household throughout her teenagers. He advised her he would discover completely different households for her to dwell with within the church to get her away from our household. He remoted her.”
You possibly can see extra from Mica’s household (beneath):
Only a horrible, horrible story. We don’t know if there’s any justice that may be discovered right here. Too many of those little behaviors on their very own aren’t even unlawful. However put all of them collectively, are they psychologically damaging sufficient to push somebody to take their very own life?
We simply hope somebody will choose this so-called pastor, ultimately. Even when he has to seek out his justice someplace a bit additional south than South Carolina…
If you happen to or somebody you recognize is considering suicide, assist is obtainable. Contemplate contacting the 988 Suicide & Disaster Lifeline at 988, by calling, texting, or chatting, or go to 988lifeline.org.
If you happen to or somebody you recognize is experiencing home violence, assist is obtainable. Contemplate calling the Nationwide Home Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233, or textual content START to 88788, or go to https://www.thehotline.org/.
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