Erika Jayne shared her ideas on Actual Housewives of Orange County star Alexis Bellino‘s engagement to Shannon Beador‘s ex-boyfriend, John Janssen, on an episode of Tamra Decide and Teddi Mellencamp‘s podcast final week.
Days after Alexis, 47, confirmed that John, 61, requested her to marry him on their nine-month anniversary, the 53-year-old Actual Housewives of Beverly Hills star stated she felt they had been transferring too quick as she defended Shannon, 60, and spoke of her relationship along with her son, Tommy Zizzo, 32.
“Any relationship is difficult. Put it within the public. Put it on a actuality TV present. Put it surrounded by all of this controversy or criticism. Good luck, as a result of that’s going to be onerous. And if it fails, there are going to be lots of people cheerleading,” Erika shared on the August 30 episode of Two Ts in a Pod. “It’s an excessive amount of too quickly.”
“Look, I wager she does really feel fantastic and all of that. And God bless you. However this sh*t adjustments, and it adjustments on a dime. And when it does, it sucks. In order that’s why I’m far more reserved,” Erika continued. “She’s gonna get a superb outdated check. [Her] religion higher be sturdy as a result of marriage is a check. I’m 23 years, and it ain’t going so nice. So in case you wanna f*ck round and discover out, name me.”
After signaling her marriage to her estranged husband, Thomas Girardi, 85, who was not too long ago discovered responsible of fraud for stealing thousands and thousands from former purchasers of his regulation agency, Erika suspected the upcoming RHOC reunion would “be horrible.”
“This isn’t gonna be simple,” she famous.
Erika then took a stand for Shannon, telling Alexis and John to “go away [her] alone.”
“If y’all are glad, hooray, go be glad. However don’t smash this woman’s face into it that rather more. We will’t drag that out for much longer. Am I fallacious? Depart her alone,” she demanded.
Then after Teddi, 43, requested what it will really feel like if she had been to begin relationship Garcelle Beauvais‘ ex-husband, Mike Nilon, Erika stated it will be “awkward” and “bizarre.”
“She wouldn’t be glad. The one individuals which can be glad are the community and the producers,” Erika said.
Transferring on to her son, who she welcomed when she was simply 20 along with her first husband, Erika admitted that she was too younger to be a mum or dad.
“I did the perfect I might with what I had, and thank God, we’re tremendous shut,” she shared. “I had loads of assist. My first husband had his mom, who was getting concerned … There was my mom. My grandmother was alive on the time. So this little one had many arms on him, and I used to be there, too.”
Though Erika famous that boys must “separate themselves from their mom” and “go have their very own identification,” she and Tommy are very shut at the moment.
“My son is 32. I see him 3 times every week. He’s at my home. The whole lot is nice,” she gushed. “I all the time [keep] the road of communication open. So if my son had been to name me proper now, I’d say, ‘Excuse me. I must take this name.’ And I all the time did that each one his life … [And] happily for me, I had a very nice child, so I received tremendous fortunate.”
The Actual Housewives of Beverly Hills season 14 premieres this fall on Bravo.