Artwork by Tarek Chemaly |
For some time I used to be cool. I imply that, I collaborated with the hippest up and coming bands, I used to be all around the information (regionally and internationally), I used to be featured in movie festivals, I used to be giving visitor lectures left and proper, and was even requested to be a part of an advert for an app whereby you pay by smartphone as a result of I used to be an “influencer” (no concept the place they go this identify nevertheless it appears on the time I used to be thought of as one). Aside from me not eager to affiliate my picture with any model I used to be so late within the sport once I acquired my first smartphone so again then I didn’t even have one. Hey, one pupil even did an entire venture about me when the temporary was “who do you aspire to be sooner or later?”.
As I stated, for some time, I used to be cool.
Cool handed me by. It helps that even within the epitome of it I used to take all the things with a shrug. An article about me in Sweden? Sure, pretty. A entrance web page about me in Denmark? How form of them. Being shuttled between media on opening nights? Perhaps I ought to have worn a unique shirt. Maybe I ought to have taken it extra severely. However such is that I’m. Highlight is un peu annoying for me – I’m too introverted for that.
However once more, this begs the query: What occurs when you’re now not cool?
For folks like me, nothing a lot. Cool was simply an accident and we outgrow it. However I see it in different folks, when they’re now not “related” – when their declare to fame was the “greatest dressed/worst dressed” listing, or being invited to restaurant openings.
I by no means accepted presents from manufacturers, however they did. A buddy who labored on the similar place with a kind of skilled influencers – she informed me on Christmas there can be no place to sit down within the workplace as a result of presents the place in every single place (each used to work at a outstanding native firm). Final time I checked the influencer in query was doing “desk ornament” after being laid off from her company job (no disgrace in that) however since all corporations in Lebanon reduce down their budgets considerably, I miss out on if anybody is handing out presents anymore.
Similar for all different individuals who relied on corporations handing out presents and token and – actually – free lunches. Nobody actually cares for influencers at this level on the native scene, or in the event that they do, they really maintain the higher hand over them (the influencers that’s). Thoughts you as somebody informed me currently a sure account on Instagram now labels all the things he evaluations as “great” and “off the charts” and many others… as a result of virtually that’s the solely strategy to entice manufacturers inviting him anyplace.
Am I going off tangent? I do not suppose so.
As a result of gone are the times the place manufacturers may simply place any message through a “spokesperson” (discover the quotes) in trade for a free coupon or a meal. Social media are biting again in power. Individuals are speaking again to manufacturers and exposing their private gripes and grievances (from worker salaries, to working situations, to restaurant service, to something you possibly can consider). Since I used to be by no means tied to a selected model or accepted to assist one, and – to be trustworthy – I used to be at all times principally important of them and their communication, I can get away scot free from all of the negativity.
I actually suppose I’m the final blogger standing in Lebanon. There’s another person, however their weblog is only a copy-paste of corny press releases. However for those who consider the phrase “blogger” to me Instagram doesn’t come to thoughts.
So what occurs whenever you’re now not cool like me? Enterprise as ordinary. You go on being hated as you had been beforehand (and to anybody saying what I write doesn’t matter, please verify all of the messages I get from the folks within the business). Or, paradoxically, you continue to get to be preferred by the only a few – whose ego nonetheless handles being known as for his or her communication mishaps.
A number of weeks in the past I ended up being enamored by two advertisements – and so they occurred by sheer likelihood to be achieved by the identical company. The company head emailed me “twice? in a single week? am I not the fortunate one?”
So apparently in a my post-cool section my opinion nonetheless issues. Not less than to 1 company.